Wednesday, May 4, 2011

What I Learned Wednesday: Great Blog Post Titles

What is the hardest part of writing a blog post?

The title, of course!

I really hate having to title each post.  I guess I don't really have to title them.  But it would come across as "Untitled post" to everyone and I don't want that either.

So how do you get something witty and clever but also something that shows up on search engines across the world?

Fortunately I'm not the only one with this problem.  These fine folks have come up with some ideas.  Check 'em out.


How to Write Killer Blog Titles & Why Mine Suck

How to Choose a Headline Using 3 Little Known Secrets

Blog Title – It’s More Than A Few Words

 

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

What I Learned at Cooking Class

I'm happy to give you this guest post (including recipe!) today by Amy:


Hi.  I’m Amy.  I’m happy to be a guest blogger for Cathy today.  My blog is Motherhood and Miscellany, where I write about the things I love: my two girls (ages 2 and 8 months), being a stay-at-home-mom, reading, cooking, photography, and anything else that strikes my fancy. 

One thing I’ve been writing about quite a bit lately is cooking.  I might even say I have a little bit of a cooking obsession lately.  I love to cook and have recently started trying to make up my own recipes.  My husband and I love the show “Chopped” on the Food Network and decided to try our own little version of the show at home.  You can check out how we started here.  Basically, each week he is giving me a “mystery ingredient” that I have to use in a recipe that I create myself.  So far he’s given me Ritz crackers and grits.  The recipes I’ve created have been good, though not yet great.  It has been tremendously fun to challenge myself this way in trying to take my cooking abilities to the next level.

Another way I have recently tried to improve my cooking is by taking a cooking class.  There is a wonderful chef staff at our local country club, and my husband and I love to eat there.  A few weeks ago they offered a class on braising with one of the chefs, and I jumped at the chance to attend.  It was a fantastic experience!  I thought I would share a few of the things I learned. 

Of course, braising is basically a way to slowly cook meat, first using a dry heat to brown the meat, and then cooking the meat in liquid until it is tender.  This is a great way to take tough but less expensive cuts of meat, like chuck or shank, and make them tender and delicious.  I always want to throw something in the crock pot without having to brown the meat first (I’ve done it many times), but the chefs say “No!”  Browning adds much to the flavor they say, so I will try to make myself take this extra step from now on.  I learned that the basic steps to making a complete braised dish are pretty much the same every time: 

  1. Season your meat, either by marinating it or rubbing some seasoning on it, or just putting salt and pepper on.
  2. Brown your meat. First get your pan hot, then add your oil or butter or whatever fat you’re using.  Let that get hot and then put your meat in and brown it on all sides.  A new thing I learned at the class is that you should flour the meat if it is in small pieces to help it get browned but prevent the meat from cooking all the way through while you brown it (in the browning step you just want to caramelize the outside of the meat, not cook it all the way through).
  3. Once the meat is browned on all sides, remove it to a separate plate, add a bit more fat to the pan, and brown your mire poix (chopped onion, celery, and carrots).
  4. Then deglaze the pan with some sort of acid, like wine or vinegar.  Pour it in and scrape up the browned bits from the bottom of the pan.  This starts to prepare the sauce for the meat already by getting all that great flavor into the liquid.  Reduce the deglazing sauce a bit.
  5. Add your meat back in with other seasonings and liquid for cooking, usually a stock or broth.  You want to put in enough liquid to cover the meat about half- to two-thirds of the way, not to cover it completely (another new thing I learned). 
  6. Cover the meat and put it in the oven to cook.  You could also use a crockpot, or even cook it on the stove.  But doing it on the stove requires more attention to make sure the temperature stays right.  During the cooking you may want to turn the meat halfway through and/or baste it a few times.
  7. Once the meat is done, take it out of the liquid and keep it warm.  Skim off any impurities from the top of the liquid.  Then you can use the cooking liquid to make a sauce.  You can strain out the mire poix vegetables and other seasonings and then thicken the liquid with a cornstarch slurry or roux*.  Or you can puree the whole thing and use the vegetables to help thicken the sauce.  Or you could put the pan back on the stove and reduce the liquid.  Or you could do any combination of these things.  Or maybe the liquid will be just right when you take it out and you won’t need to do much of anything to it!  You can experiment and taste it and see what works. 
  8. Slice the meat, top with sauce, serve! 

*I learned two great tips in the class for making and using a roux (combination of butter and flour used as a thickening agent).  First, the rule of thumb for making a roux is that you use equal parts by weight of the flour and butter.  Second, you can make a large amount of roux and then put it in an airtight container and just scoop out whatever amount you need each time you make a sauce, instead of having to take the time to make the roux each time you cook a sauce.

Okay, so now that I’ve given you all that info, here’s an actual recipe that we made in the class for Southwest Bar-B-Que Pork Ribs:

Ingredients
5 lbs Country style pork ribs
Southwest seasoning (enough to season the ribs)
Oil for cooking
1 large onion, diced
2 ribs of celery, diced
2 carrots, diced
¼ cup garlic, chopped
4 cups Bar-B-Que sauce
2 quarts pork or chicken stock (approximately)
2 Bay leaves
3 dried Ancho chiles
1 cinnamon stick
1/4 cup cilantro, chopped
Salt and Pepper to taste

  1. Rehydrate the chiles by soaking them in warm water until soft.  Drain and remove the stems and seeds, then chop.
  2. Add about a Tbsp of oil to your pan over medium heat.  Add vegetables and sauté until tender.  Remove from pan (in this recipe the chef chose to do the vegetables before the meat so they wouldn’t get browned)
  3. Lightly season the meat with the southwest seasoning.  Add a bit more oil to the pan and brown the meat on all sides (this recipe calls for a lot of meat so be sure not to crowd the pan.  We had a huge pan in the commercial kitchen, but at home you’d probably have to brown the meat in batches).
  4. Add the reserved mire poix vegetables, BBQ sauce, bay leaf, chilis, cinnamon, and enough stock to cover the meat 2/3 of the way.
  5. Bring to a boil, reduce heat, and cover.  Cook the covered meat in a 250 degree oven for 2.5 to 3.5 hours, until fork tender.
  6. Remove meat from pan and keep warm.  Strain the liquid through a mesh strainer.  Return to pan and reduce by 1/3, skimming often (there will be a bit of oil that comes to the top).
  7. Thicken the sauce, if necessary, with roux or cornstarch & water (when we made this in the class the sauce was the perfect consistency after being strained).
  8. Return the meat to the pan and heat through.
  9. Add cilantro and adjust seasoning.  This will serve 6-8.

  This seems like a lot of work, but most of the time spent is just waiting for the meat to cook. It really wasn’t that involved, and the dish was so flavorful and the meat so tender, this is definitely something I will be trying at home.  I may cut the recipe in half though, since it was really a lot of meat at the end. 

It has been fun doing this guest post.  Thanks to Cathy for having me (and my cooking obsession) for the day!

Monday, May 2, 2011

How to Keeps Kids Entertained on Long Car Journeys

Guest Post today by Joe.  Enjoy!

With the Easter break just gone and the kids facing lengthy school holidays, you have likely been subject lengthy car journeys with the kids, ferrying them around to various attractions and amusements, desperately trying to keep the little rascals entertained. It’s one thing finding things for them to do, but quite another keeping them happy on long, hot commutes. As we all know kids have an attention span lasting mere seconds and boredom can set in almost immediately, so what exactly can you do during these trips to keep them from kicking the back of your chair and distracting your attention from the road?

Of course with the massive leaps in in-car-entertainment over the past few years, kids are spoiled for choice when it comes to passing the time on long-distance trips, of course we don’t all have a state of the art people-carriers equipped with surround sound systems, plasma TVs and a fridge to keep their candy cool. No matter how high tech your vehicle, there are plenty of ways to make a gruelling trip that bit more pleasurable, for both you and your kids!

Traditional Games
This is a fun and cost-free way to pass the time. Getting your kids involved with old favourites like I-Spy will not only keep their minds occupied, it will also hone their lateral thinking and engage their brains more than watching TV would. Other great games include ‘twenty questions’ and ‘stop the bus.’

Food and Drink
As we all know, one of the easiest routes to our kids hearts is through their stomachs and when they’re eating, they’re not shouting! Of course any intelligent parents knows not to feed their kids mountains of candy and sugary soda. Instead pack fruit juice, wholemeal bread and vegetable sticks to keep them satisfied and healthy!

Crosswords/Sudoku
Another effective way to keep your kids mentally stimulated is to get them to play word or number games. There are plenty of activity books out there packed with such puzzles available at very reasonable prices.

Sing-along Music
If your kids insist on making a din, why not at least try to get them sounding tuneful? Rather than simply putting on some Millie Cyrus or Justin Bieber, get a sing-along CD from a popular film or musical, this way your little ones can exercise their vocal chords and be educated about some cultural classics.

Joe is a stay-home-dad who drives a Volvo V70.

Friday, April 29, 2011

Are you happy?

Are you happy?

My daughter asked me that question last night after dinner.  I know why she did it.  We had just heard some news that upset us and we were trying hard not to let it show.

But it did.

And she noticed.

But it really got me to thinking.  AM I happy?  What defines "being happy?" 

You can be content but not be happy, if happy is defined as being peppy and perky all the time.

On the other hand, you can be peppy and perky all the time and not really be happy on the inside.

You can be resigned that this is the best that it gets, even if it's not very good.  Is that happy?  Being resigned to your situation so much that you don't try to change it?

What about our situation last night?  Overall I like my life.  I like the freedom I have during the day - freedom that's there because I am not employed.  I like being here when my kids get home from school.  I like being on PTA and going on field trips.  I like that I like the same leisure time activities as my husband.  I like that he loves me and I love him.

But that doesn't mean I display outward happiness at all times on all days.  That doesn't mean I'm not happy.

I think kids have such a black and white picture of happiness.  If you like what you are doing at any given time, you are happy.  If you don't, you are sad. 

Fortunately for us, it's more gray.  I like that one bad situation in life doesn't define my happiness.  It might put a damper on it for an hour or a day.  Then I remember how all the good things in life are still there and I choose to be happy.

What about you?  How do you define happiness?

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Book Review: Digitalis

Digitalis by Ronie Kendig

Digitalis (Discarded Heroes, Book 2)

Digitalis is the second book in the Discarded Heroes series. (Book 1, Nightshade, was reviewed here.)

Colton "Cowboy" McNeeley is a loving father and son.  He's also a highly trained sniper, one with deadly accuracy.  Nightshade, a black ops military group, looks to him as the stable force in their group.  Only he's off his game, shaken up by a woman.  Piper Blum has stolen his heart but Piper has secrets that she is hiding from him.  Keeping those secrets may put his family in danger, but revealing them may put an entire country in danger.

Can Nightshade rescue a nation?  Can Colton forgive the lies that Piper has told him?

My Thoughts:

After loving Nightshade, book 1 in the series, I had high hopes for book 2.  And it delivered!!  Twists and turns kept me interested.  Bad things happening to the good people made it believable. And just when you think you know who's behind the attacks, you're thrown for a loop.

Was there anything I didn't like?  Yes, I have just a few complaints.  They were more like annoyances.  Most books flow with an introduction, a conflict, the action, then the resolution.  The flow in this book is introduction, conflict, action, interlude, more action, then finally a resolution.  The action in the middle of the book kind of threw me off.  Not that it was written badly, it was just different than other books I've read.

Despite the flow issues, I still loved the book.  I recommend it to all who love to read.

5 out of 5 stars


Thanks to NetGalley for providing the Kindle version of this book for review.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

What I Learned Wednesday: Sidebar Titles

Check out my other What I Learned Wednesday posts here.

This is turning out to be a super busy week. I am getting ready for Disney, as well as volunteering at the Book Fair and Carnival at school this week.  Whew!  I'm going to be so ready for our vacation.

In light of all that, I just have a little lesson for today, more of a blog tweak instead of part of our blog pimping.  Anyway...

Scroll on down until you see "About Me" and "Follow Me" titles on my right sidebar.  That's what I changed for today.  And it was so easy.  Really, I promise.

Those two titles are just pictures.  And you can easily put pictures on your sidebar.  I'll leave making the title picture up to you.  Once you've done that, it's time to add it to your blog.  As usual, all the magic starts on the Design/Page Element page.  You'll see your sidebar over on the right.  Click on "Add a Gadget" at the top.  You'll have lots of choices of things to add.  Scroll down until you see "Picture."  Click the plus to add a picture.  Like with our blog title, it's smart to go ahead and click that little box that says "Size to fit," because once you add your file, you can't click it.  Add your file and Save and you're all set.

So now all my titles match and, if you notice, I figured out how to get the white background out of my title.  Yay for transparent titles!!

By the way, did any of you know that hamsters hiss?  Seriously, our hamster just hissed at me when I got close to her cage.  This is bringing back flashbacks of my childhood vampire cat who hated me.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Planning our Disney vacation

It's T-minus 4 days until we leave for Disney!!!!!!!
(I'm just a tad excited!)

Since this is our first Disney trip as a family, we are kind of novices in this whole Disney trip planning thing.  But I did learn a few things, so I thought I'd take you through my process so maybe you can learn something too.

We figured we had several big decisions to make - Drive or fly? What time of year do we go?  How many days do we stay?  Stay on property or off?

The first thing I did to answer those questions was to ask others about their Disney experiences and to check out a Disney guide from the library.  I actually picked up several guides to compare.  My favorite by far, was the Unofficial Guide to Walt Disney World.  After pouring over that book and getting lots of Facebook answers to lots of Facebook questions, we got some answers.

First question: Drive or fly?  We picked driving over flying for simple monetary reasons.  Of course gas wasn't $3.50 a gallon then; however, the cheapest airline tickets we could find were around $300 round-trip.  For 4 of us, that is a chunk of change!  I know there are deals to be had, but the stress of waiting for them would have been too much for me.

Second question: When to go?  The Unofficial guide and their corresponding website have a wonderful crowd calendar that helps you determine when the best time to go is.  Our original plan was to visit over Spring Break.  But once I found out that was the busiest time of the year, we quickly crossed that off the list.  Summer is the second most crowded time of year and ... HOT.  But the first week in May looked like the perfect time.  Not too busy, not too hot but hot enough.  And you may disagree, but we felt like our kids were young enough that taking them out of school for the week wouldn't hurt them too much.  So the first week of May it is.  Check.

Next up - How long do we stay and how many days do we go to the parks?  Well, we felt like to really get the Disney experience, it required a week.  We are driving down part way on Saturday, the rest of the way on Sunday and driving back the next Saturday.  That gives us 5 days to go to parks.  But...we are also on vacation, which means we don't want to be stressed and tired all the time, so our plan is to take Wed off.  A day off right there in the middle of the week to lounge around, swim in the pool and be lazy.  No parks on Wed! 

All those decisions seemed so much easier compared to the BIG one - where do we stay?  I have to admit, we have never been more conflicted over any vacation decision as we were with "Do we stay on Disney property or off?"  If you talk to someone who has stayed on property, they are going to tell you to stay on property - "You don't get the full Disney experience without it."  If you talk to someone who stayed off, they are going to list the merits of staying off property - "more space, cheaper."  We went back and forth over and over and in the end, we decided....to stay on Disney property.  The dragon slide at the pool was the deciding factor.  We have NEVER all 4 stayed in one hotel room for a week before.  We'll see if we are all speaking at the end of this :).

That's how my analytical, love-to-plan mind works.  Just thought I'd give you a glimpse.

I still have spots for guest posters next week.  Email me or leave me a comment if you'd like to get your name out there.